tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.comments2023-11-05T01:42:06.144-08:00Tim Line - a Father 4 JusticeHeartBrokenDadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00927582412934696417noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-47957129055929260912014-02-28T18:00:22.434-08:002014-02-28T18:00:22.434-08:00Hi - sorry but I cocked this post up twice now.
I...Hi - sorry but I cocked this post up twice now.<br /><br />I found out that your old website has been put back up again by Nick Davey in Australia.<br /><br />You can see it here:<br /><br /><b><a rel="nofollow">http://www.adrianbressington.com</a></b>Justa Dadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17310568218295936608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-3994115071739680942014-02-23T05:16:08.323-08:002014-02-23T05:16:08.323-08:00Thanks for that.
I was expecting someone to mir...Thanks for that. <br /><br />I was expecting someone to mirror it. There are too many victims out there and so many around the world that have been screwed by our Divorce industry.<br /><br />I have met Nick. A nicer guy you couldn't meet. You can find his own story here:<br /><br /><a rel="nofollow">http://nunyara.blogspot.co.uk/2009/12/story-of-my-divorce.html</a>HeartBrokenDadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00927582412934696417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-17074864289284452192011-04-03T16:39:38.407-07:002011-04-03T16:39:38.407-07:00If my comments are as Mr Justice Tugendhat said, &...If my comments are as Mr Justice Tugendhat said, "wholly without merit", then why did my reply to an extremely threatening letter from Awdry, Bailey and Douglas Solicitors back on 3rd September 2010 go unanswered?<br /><br />Answer? They know that I have the evidence to prove that Bressington lied in court and decided not to come after me, but go for the easy meat and go for Mr Kordowski and his website instead.<br /><br />I am not frightened of Bressington or his law firm and will continue to speak out until such time as he is forced to answer for his actions throughout my long winded and expensive divorce.<br /><br />I urge anyone else who has experienced this man's modus operandi, to get in contact with me ASAP.<br /><br />You can call me on 07718 877410HeartBrokenDadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00927582412934696417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-23852391316352658122009-12-23T21:47:20.437-08:002009-12-23T21:47:20.437-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.GordonRBogardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05590825849803072101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-56225919195053352642009-11-18T14:57:54.729-08:002009-11-18T14:57:54.729-08:00Thanks very much for taking the time to write from...Thanks very much for taking the time to write from your point of view.<br /><br />From my point of view I ask you to think about one thing. Is your dad really as bad as you have been led to believe? Do you know the full story from his side or have you just repeatedly heard negative comments about him from your mother since they separated?<br /><br />I haven't seen my girls since 8th Aug 2007. It is still as painful today as it was then. I have written many times and have not once had a reply. In fact I have no way of knowing whether they even get to see my letters.<br /><br />It is completely unnatural for a child not to want to see their father unless they have been manipulated by their mother to think badly of him or unless he has hurt them in some way.<br /><br />I have done nothing to deserve this. After my wife and I separated I was only 'allowed' to see them every other weekend. All attempts to see more of them were rejected. Imagine seeing your children every day and suddenly being told that you can only see them 4 days a month. I suggested picking them up from school 1 day a week and having them round for tea so I could be more of a father top them, but this was rejected out of hand as being 'too disruptive'. I don't believe these were my wife's words, but those of her solicitor, who in my opinion is the main cause that things are as they are. The man is pure evil and has absolutely no interest in what is best for my girls. All he cares about is dragging things out as long as possible`so he can line his pocket at my wife's and therefore my children's expense. Between us we have already spent enough to have helped all 3 of our girls through University. It is so sad.<br /><br />Everything that I ever worked for going into our solicitors pockets.<br /><br />Anyway back to your letter.<br /><br />I don't know how old you are, but I really do appreciate your point of view. I did the Batman thing last year after not having seen or heard from my girls for a year. I just felt I HAD to do something to show them that I still loved them regardless of what they were being told by their mother.<br /><br />Since then, I have been campaigning for the law to be changed and at the same time trying to find a way to expose Adrian Bressington from Awdry, Bailey and Douglas Solicitors in Devizes (my wife's solicitor), for what he is.<br /><br />I was married to my wife for 19 years and still cannot bring myself to believe that she has done what she's done without encouragement from him. He has no scruples whatsoever, has told blatant lies in court on more than one occasion, and cares only about causing as much conflict as possible so he can benefit.<br /><br />After what I have told you, don't you think it would be worth at least talking to your father, or writing to him to explain things as you see them? and ask him to explain his side of the story?<br /><br />Ask yourself what your mother would feel like if she had been deprived of you for 2 years? You said you missed him and I am 100% sure he misses you and would do anything to see you again. I know I would.<br /><br />Finally, thanks for your best wishes - I wish you the very best too.HeartBrokenDadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00927582412934696417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-37687201638659751542009-11-18T04:36:24.684-08:002009-11-18T04:36:24.684-08:00Hey, my dad hasnt seen us properly in about 2 year...Hey, my dad hasnt seen us properly in about 2 years, i know how much it hurts but you need to ask yourself if what your doing is benefitting them, you have no idea how many times ive tried to talk sense to my dad, he moved to Australia a while back and re married, i dont know him anymore but my parents have been divorced 3 years and he still makes them repetedly go to court, he doesnt pay maintence to us and we dont have much money, he moved but he still wants the contact. he set up a page similar to this once and it really upset me and my brothers and sister. it was almost insulting. i dont know what your situation is, and God knows i really hope it works out because i know how much it hurts not having my dad around, but after all the crazy things hes done i dont want to see him, something he cant understand is that he is in the wrong for things we shouldnt go into but until he sorts them out, i really dont think its in my best interests to see or speak to him. PLease ask yourself if this is helping and if you want you daughters to see this and think "Gosh thats embarressing", i really dont know whats going on in your life and as i said i pray for you and you Daughters sakes it works out for the best, i have no wish to upset or offend you, i just really wanted you to perhaps see it from a childs point of view.<br />All the best, i really mean that!HiHihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13711048118114557114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-46472960757996651312009-03-07T06:44:00.000-08:002009-03-07T06:44:00.000-08:00hi allhaving just recieved a non molestion order h...hi all<BR/>having just recieved a non molestion order here is my potted history,<BR/>in 2006 returned home (work in oil industry)on leave opened post, found out wife been taking loans out and not repaying them,so far so good but in 2003 wife had us made homeless by doing same thing,cue angry man ,put hand on wifes shoulder, police called,me in cells for night ,no charges,<BR/>wife promises to seek help for her behaviour,then in 2007 our daughter was diagnosed with a brain tumor,stopped work and spent all time with daughter hospital stays radiotherpy runs chemo,during this period the relationship with my wife allready rocky deteriated to such an extent <BR/>that i called in the social workers and mental health team to try and help (my wife was assulting me destroying furniture ect also throwing me out on a regular basis with accusations of an affair over twenty years ago)<BR/>so i get the wife going to councelling ,we as a family go to councelling,great i think the fire brigade has arrived,,all goes well untill the last time at the councellors she asked me what i want to happen,at this time its just me and the wife so i say ,all i want is for the conflict to stop while our daughter is still alive and that when it is over if my wife wants it we can then go our separate ways,with that she storms out, when i return home the door is locked and a few of my clothes are in bin bags on the porch,since then i have seen my kids 5 times ,and had one overnight stay with my daughter in hospital,then ontop of it all this catch all non molestation order full of lies (2006 non assult )which no one will grant me legal aid to defend,so here is me sleeping on a mates couch, jobseekers allowance of the princely sum of 60 quid a week,no chance of seeing my daughter ,and the professionals i called in to help and support do not want to know,my advice to anyone is keep away from them,,makianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08415626063946621022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-86744952265924451822008-11-05T09:24:00.000-08:002008-11-05T09:24:00.000-08:00Best of Luck Tim:It is the hardest thing we will e...Best of Luck Tim:<BR/><BR/>It is the hardest thing we will ever do to fight the laziness and conservatism of family courts whether it be in your country or many others, including mine. Most organizations in the women's support ecosystem are highly feminized and the family courts more so than many. Lawyers, in their infinite desire to make as much money as possible, kow a good bandwagon and will continue to want top keep the adversarial system in play rather than opt for shared and equal parenting as a presumption in law.<BR/><BR/>All we can do is take one day at a time and be patient. Blogging and other forms of publicity is required to show the community and the world the stark unfairness of the current system.<BR/><BR/>You are a former warrior and you know the value of discipline. That is an important component in us doing the right thing and getting the attention we desire to get the laws changed. My children know I am fighting for them and part of the reason they are less alienated now is the publicity surrounding PA I have generated. It will keep your ex on guard.<BR/><BR/>Best wishes from a F4J colleague in Canada.<BR/><BR/>See this for an inspiring look at another warrior coming home:<BR/>http://f4j-soo.blogspot.com/2008/10/it-is-truly-inspiring-to-watch-this11.html<BR/><BR/>f4j-soo.bloghspot.com<BR/>http://parentalalienationcanada.blogspot.com/Michael J. Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01576687584409641503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-14070849211983321202008-07-31T03:46:00.000-07:002008-07-31T03:46:00.000-07:00I am one of the fortunate few who went through an ...I am one of the fortunate few who went through an amicable divore (though still a horrendously stressful and emotional time). I was luckier still to have uncontested custody of my 2 daughters, aged 1 and 2 at the time.<BR/><BR/>I have read all too often about terrible stories such as Tim's and each time thanked my lucky stars.<BR/><BR/>Now I read about Tim, a friend whom I met over a backgammon board many years ago, and admire greatly as a person and a great backgammoner!!<BR/><BR/>When I think back to my own divorce (now 20 years ago) and try to imagine what it would have been like if I had not only lost the girls but also been denied access to them, I wonder if I would have been able to cope at all.<BR/><BR/>But, Tim, you are such a strong character with a terrific sense of honesty and integrity. I know that you will not only cope but will fight this terrible injustice until it is corrected.<BR/><BR/>I am so pleased that you have the support of Fathers 4 Justice and you know all you have to do is yell and I will be there for you to do whatever I can to help.<BR/><BR/>Charlie.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06458315413603967256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-10371793400097814062008-07-25T03:58:00.000-07:002008-07-25T03:58:00.000-07:00Posted by: geddi, calne on 10:58am todayMassive sy...Posted by: geddi, calne on 10:58am today<BR/><BR/>Massive sympathies here lads. I spent 11 years fighting to see my kids on a regular basis and almost cracked up through it. There are still raw scars inside me which I don't think will ever completely heal. I missed out on their development and they also missed out. It was time which can never be regained. It was time which was lost completely.<BR/><BR/>Hats off to Fathers For Justice. May equality between sexes in this country one day be achieved.HeartBrokenDadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00927582412934696417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-70745300218217809602008-07-25T01:48:00.000-07:002008-07-25T01:48:00.000-07:00Posted by: J.Munby, Manningford Bruce on 7:00pm Th...Posted by: J.Munby, Manningford Bruce on 7:00pm Thu 24 Jul 08<BR/><BR/>his sounds like yet another piece of family court corruption-just give the mother whatever she wishes and to hell with the father, his kids or even any justice. Mr Line should simply not bother with wasting his money on solicitors who don't fight, but take to protest under the Fathers 4 Justice banner. Do your protests Mr Line so the kids will hear about it!<BR/>Then they will know that you are still thinking about them and fighting for them. Read the book FAMILY COURT HELL by Mark Harris, it worked for him!HeartBrokenDadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00927582412934696417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4830210631682321916.post-54063933254891086232008-07-25T01:47:00.000-07:002008-07-25T01:47:00.000-07:00Posted by: Monty1262, Plymouth on 5:41pm Thu 24 Ju...Posted by: Monty1262, Plymouth on 5:41pm Thu 24 Jul 08<BR/><BR/>Its sad to say that this is more common than most people may think.<BR/><BR/>I serve in the Royal Marines and upon returning from Afghanistan in March 07, i found myself in court 5 days later facing a non-molestation order from false allegations. I had no time to prepare for this, nor would the court allow it. All of my savings from my operational deployment went on solicitors fees (some £4000) which in all reality served no purpose because the court simply will not listen to reason.<BR/><BR/>I spent the next year going it alone through the courts with the help of Fathers 4 Justice trying to gain access to my two little girls who i used to enjoy a happy and healthy relationship with before i deployed to Afghanistan.<BR/><BR/>It is only recently that the relationship between my children's mother and myself has become more amicable, the false allegations have been dropped and i am now being re-introduced to my children after missing 18 months (half of their lives) of being denied access.<BR/><BR/>This more agreeable situation has been worked out between us as we both agreed that the court and all its affiliated departments (namely CAFACASS and my ex partners solicitor) were causing more problems by creating a 'winner takes all' scenario' and NOT working for the best interests of the children.<BR/><BR/>I have been on several operation tours with the Marines and had to endure all that it has thrown at me, but i can catagorically state that being denied access to my children and going through the family courts has been by far the most hardest and cruelest experience of my life. I serve to protect this countries way of life, only to be put through an ordeal that i would wish on noone. I do not believe that i should be treated any differently to the next man just because of what i do, simply because it doesnt matter who you are nd what you do if you are a father going through the family courts (just read up on the experiences of Sir Bob Geldof).<BR/><BR/>Being a father isnt something that should ordered, won or enforced by a court, and its because there is often no other choice then this is an unfortunate reality.<BR/>For the fathers out there who have done nothing wrong and who genuinly want to see their children, this country is not set up to help us and our children have relationships with BOTH parents.<BR/><BR/>I deeply feel sorry for Tim Line in the situation that has been forced upon him and he will undoubtably have a long battle against him simply because it is easier for the court to deny access rather than look deeply into a situation, have a full and un(gender)biased investigation and hearing.<BR/>We dont just want justice for fathers, we want it for our children too.<BR/><BR/>For those that are interested in cases like this, please read up on 'Parantal Alienation Syndrome' (PAS), although not 'legally' recognised in this country it explains a great deal about what can happen to children caught up in relationship/access/<BR/>custody battles.<BR/><BR/>I know that not everyone is innocent, but stories always have 2 sides to it before anyone replies to this saying that im just another feckless dad. I would happily shed your ignorance on the matter.<BR/><BR/>Regards all,<BR/><BR/>from a father who was wrongly denied access to his children for 18 months, and i consider myself one of the lucky ones.HeartBrokenDadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00927582412934696417noreply@blogger.com